Wednesday, May 30, 2012

Handmade Wedding Planner

Last week we discussed what type of wedding can be described as a handmade wedding. Today I want to talk a little more about how a wedding planner can help you with your handmade wedding plans.

Many couples think that they only need a wedding planner if they are planning an elaborate, traditional, and/or expensive wedding. However, handmade weddings, and the couples that plan them, can benefit greatly from the expertise and guidance of a wedding planning professional. Do you have time (and desire) to research and interview all vendors as well as design and screen-print all the invitations, programs, menus and escort cards? Or would you prefer to focus your efforts on the handcrafted elements and leave the nitty gritty of the planning (vendor research, timelines, and budgets) to a professional? Working with a wedding planner on a handmade wedding can free you up to focus on the handmade details that make planning a handmade wedding so much fun!

A note on planners...
 
Not all planners offer the same services or have the same specialty. As you interview different planners (and just like with every other vendor, you should speak to a few before making a decision) you will get a feel for how their services will fit into your unique planning process. If you are planning a wedding that will be heavy in handmade elements you should ask your planner if he or she has experience planning this type of wedding so the he or she can help steer you in the right direction throughout your planning.

What can a planner do for you and your handmade wedding?

Prior to interviewing planners, have a brainstorming session with your fiancee or family on what your dream handmade wedding and the planning process will look like. This can be as detailed as “I want to create my centerpieces out of tissue paper flowers” to the more general “I want a party on the beach”.  Your planner will help you define that vision but it's helpful to have a starting point.


You probably have a pretty good idea how a wedding planner can help you plan a wedding (if not, take a look at our full service wedding planning package for a list of services), but how can she help you plan a handmade wedding? We break it down into three specific services.
  •  Project selection: If you have started researching handmade projects you have probably found an abundance of ideas on blogs, magazines and Pinterest. Your planner will help you sort through this wealth of information to find projects that fit your style and skill level. A Planner with experience in handmade weddings will have a good idea of what works. Wedding planning should be fun, but taking on too much can make it very stressful, so it's important to pick a few key projects that will bring your celebration to life instead of taking on every element of the day. The planning experience will help you create beautiful, personal elements, as well as give you insights into which corners just shouldn't be cut.
  • Time management: An important part of choosing your handmade projects is thinking realistically about how much time you have to devote to these creations, including which you can prepare long before your wedding day and the crazy days immediately prior. Your planner can help you determine how much time projects will take to complete the projects that are most doable and important to you.
  • Project consultation: So now you have decided which projects to take on, and you're sure that you have the time to complete them, but where to start? When we plan handmade weddings we are always there to help our client's source the supplies, assist with a tutorial, and help put on finishing touches if necessary.

What about on the day of the wedding?

Will the effort and time required to pull together these personal details detract from your experience on the big day? Stay tuned for a future post! 

Friday, May 25, 2012

Trends: Collage Table Runner

I have seen these collage table runners all over Pinterest lately. They are definitely statement pieces and would be a perfect (but time consuming!) handmade project.They are a great way to incorporate your interest or love story into your decor. Did you meet in your college library? Check out the book pages below. Are you avid travelers? How about vintage maps (or current maps photocopied in sepia tones)?


Style Me Pretty via Pinterest/ Photography: Millie Holloman Photography/ Design: Salt Harbor Design

With so much going on in the runner I would suggest keeping your centerpieces very simple: votives or monochromatic or single flower arrangements for example.



Or perhaps you could only use the runner on the head table or cake table? Below is a very unique way to include photos of family and friends!

Ruffled Blog via Pinterest/ Designer: Chic Celebrations/ Photographer: Krista Mason


I hope everyone has a happy and safe Memorial Day!

Tuesday, May 22, 2012

What is a Handmade Wedding?

At Curry Kay Events we love all weddings from the small to the enormous, the simple to the most elaborate, the backyard picnic to the 5-course ocean-side meal, but what we really love, what really excites us, is a "handmade wedding".

In a land of DIY inspiration I have found that a lot of people question what I mean when I say "Handmade Wedding". Over the next few weeks I'm going to delve a little deeper into what is a handmade wedding, how a wedding planner or coordinator can assist you with your handmade wedding, and the ins and outs of making your wedding handmade.

 So let's start with the basics...  

What is a handmade wedding?


The simple answer: A handmade wedding is one where some, or all, of the details are handcrafted by you, your friends, your family, or others (such as Etsy). The more detailed answer: Handmade weddings fall on a spectrum. You may tackle every element from food to stationery to decor to attire (for the record I don't suggest this!) or select a couple of specific elements that reflect the two of you (such as the guest book you create from concert ticket stubs collected throughout your relationship). When you choose to take on handmade details you are choosing to craft your wedding in a way that is deeply personal and reflects you and your fiancee. The key and distinguishing feature of a handmade wedding is that you have infused your personality, interests and shared history through hands-on creativity to make a celebration that is uniquely yours.


Why do you say Handmade and not DIY?

When I begin working with my couples I frequently hear "I want to do x,y,z... but I don't want it to look like I did it, do you know what I mean?" Absolutely! Take a minute and think about this word: DIY. What words come to mind? Unrefined? Casual? Unprofessional? Now take another minute and think about these words: Handmade and handcrafted. What words are you thinking of now? Artisan? Polished? Elegant?


You (or your friends or family) may be taking on the details yourself, but it doesn't mean that these elements need to lose any sophistication. As we'll discuss later on, by carefully selecting what you want to take on, and following my other tips that I'll explain over the next couple of weeks, you will add another level of personalization and beauty to your celebration.


Why have a handmade wedding?

Couples choose to have a handmade wedding, or handmade elements, for a variety of reasons. Many of them are just plain crafty. They like graphic design or scrapbooking and want to take on invitations, they love woodwork and want to make a ceremony arbor or they simply found a great idea online and know they can bring it to life.


For some it's budget related. They don't want to spend $4+ per guest on a slice of cake and know that the cookies their friends can bring will be just as delicious. Or they love the tissue poms that are popular for tent decor right now, but would prefer to put in some man-hours themselves and save on the overall cost.


Others just want to include personal touches throughout their wedding. They want their guests to leave their wedding and think "that was precisely the kind of celebration we thought they would have." They want their wedding to reflect them as individuals, and as a couple, and for that to be apparent in every detail.  As you can imagine, I planned my own wedding and about 90% of it was handmade, but the detail I love the most is a linoleum cut of a wheat sheath that my dad carved for us. I used it on everything from the invitations to the program to the escort cards to the ketubah. It was a beautiful element that meant so much to both of us.


Lastly (and it's a term I use loosely as there are many more reasons couples would want a handmade wedding), many couples revel in the process of preparing something that they will keep forever (even if it's just in memories and photos). Whether they hand write their invitations or compose every word to their marriage ceremony, it's a special time to take a breath and really enjoy the planning process instead of focusing on checking items off the never ending to-do list.

Is a handmade wedding one specific style? 
Two years ago, I probably would have said yes. Handmade weddings typically trended towards the shabby chic and rustic farm look. These days, I would say absolutely not! Whether your wedding is classically elegant or a backyard bbq we can find ways to infuse handmade elements and that personal touch into your big day.

Okay, so I'm having a handmade wedding and doing a lot of stuff myself... why would I need a coordinator or a planner?

I thought you might ask that... stay tuned for my next post!

Friday, May 4, 2012

Wedding Traditions

Source: google.com via Lauren on Pinterest

May is wedding month at NBC Connecticut and I was happy to help out with some insight into wedding traditions! Click here for the article.